I just got back from my favorite conference. It’s always a great mixture of science, inspiration and networking. Oh and great food, the food is awesome. This was my first conference since I had my baby and my husband and I decided that we would all go since it was semi-local, I’m still nursing and the hotel looked fabulous. I was pretty nervous about bringing the family. Since we were local we brought LOTS of baby gear, toys and finger food. Overall, it was a good, but tough, experience.
The conference program was great. The schedule was planned such that if I had needed to pump there would have actually been time to do so. I was staying at the same hotel as the conference so, to nurse, I just went up to our room but I’m sure a place would have been provided. Speaking of food, the wonderful/kind organizers were so understanding they even told me that they were sure no one would notice if my husband popped over for some of the meals.
Hubby had a few meetings each day that he needed to call in for and we actually did pretty well with the handoffs. He and Baby had a lot of fun and Baby even got to see snow for the first time! I felt a little sad that I’d missed out on these adventures, but it’s just something I’m going to have to get used to.
The main issue for us was, as sweetscience mentioned in her post, SLEEP! Our baby is not a good sleeper, he hasn’t been since about 4-months old. We called ahead and the hotel had a crib placed in our room and we tried to keep to as many of our sleep routines as possible, but the baby basically did not sleep at night. Since we were in a hotel room there was no place to go (I did consider the bathtub) so I basically didn’t sleep. This general lack of sleep led to some fuzziness on day 1, crankiness on day 2, by day 3 I was a bordering on becoming a zombie, and on day 4 my body just gave up and I got sick. Thanks to coffee (maybe a contributor to the nausea and dizziness) and great talks I didn’t fall asleep in any of the lectures, learned a lot, and was inspired with the cool new ideas and techniques, but I do know I didn’t get as much out of the week, scientifically, as I could have. My brain felt slippery, like I knew I should be able to latch on to some of the concepts but they were just sliding by.
While not sleeping in the middle of the night I did recall my coworker telling me I was crazy to bring the family, that I should just take the hotel room and get a few nights of real sleep. I’ll be honest, at that point I totally agreed with her. But in the morning I looked over and got to see my son and my husband snuggling while I read the abstracts for the day, and I realized that I kind of got to have the best of both worlds. Minus the vomiting.
Bravo!! For staying awake during seminars and for investing even some of the conference content! I may not have this experience while mine is still a tiny babe, but in case I get to it’s nice to have some things to think about in advance. As miserable and hard as it could potentially be, I would really like for it to happen just to say that I had the experience 🙂
I am so sorry you got sick and had so little sleep! Other than that, it really does sound like you had the best of both worlds. It’s so great to hear how accommodating the conference organizers were. Very inspiring post!